Loveable Bitch
- Name: Mel
- Gender: Female
- Location: Norwich UK
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About Me
Hey everyone,
My name is Melanie (but I prefer to be called Mel). I am 24. I am very easy-going about most things and enjoy discussing anything and everything on message boards. I love a good debate occasionally but I mainly love just having fun and a laugh! What I do object to is discrimination (of any kind, positive or negative) and being judged before people know me. What I love about message boards is that you can come back and still see all the posts rather than it being in real time.
I am currently living in Norwich working as a mortgage sales consultant for a part of the RBS. I know that sounds fairly boring but it is more exciting than people think. Also I have some great colleagues which makes such a difference.
Hobbies include: surfing online, posting on message boards, reading, watching TV (especially sports), watching films, hanging out with friends, listening to music etc.
Likes: friendly people, HIM, talking, chatting, debating, pretty much anything that is fun
Dislikes: people who judge you before they know you and discrimination.
My name is Melanie (but I prefer to be called Mel). I am 24. I am very easy-going about most things and enjoy discussing anything and everything on message boards. I love a good debate occasionally but I mainly love just having fun and a laugh! What I do object to is discrimination (of any kind, positive or negative) and being judged before people know me. What I love about message boards is that you can come back and still see all the posts rather than it being in real time.
I am currently living in Norwich working as a mortgage sales consultant for a part of the RBS. I know that sounds fairly boring but it is more exciting than people think. Also I have some great colleagues which makes such a difference.
Hobbies include: surfing online, posting on message boards, reading, watching TV (especially sports), watching films, hanging out with friends, listening to music etc.
Likes: friendly people, HIM, talking, chatting, debating, pretty much anything that is fun
Dislikes: people who judge you before they know you and discrimination.
About My Avatar
This was a debate that raged when I had an avatar that was of two guys kissing. It featured from about March 2007 onwards. This has now been
changed to something less controversial. The next thing will be the quote in my sig!
Here is the the various images that were used:
Everyone seems to think I chose my avatar to make a statement about sexuality and being open-minded but to be honest it was never intended to be that (at least not to start with). Originally it was because this is a screencap from one of my favourite shows and I happen to really admire/fancy the actor on the left. I always liked the storyline that got them together so it seemed logical to have them as my avatar. It never crossed my mind that people would be so offended or digusted by me having this avatar.
Now that people have complained, it has turned into a little bit of a statement. As far as I am aware it does not break any Yuku Terms of Use but people seem to suggest it is a little offensive. To me an avatar should represent you and your views and (as long as you aren't breaking any rules) you should not be asked to remove something that is special to yourself. It annoys me that people don't allow you to express yourself the way you wish. I would never ask someone to remove an avatar because it offended me - I would simply ignore it in the posts.
Also, I have seen a lot worse avatars as well! It's not like this is blatent porn - they are not ripping each others clothes off nor does it include nudity! Argh!
Here is the the various images that were used:
Everyone seems to think I chose my avatar to make a statement about sexuality and being open-minded but to be honest it was never intended to be that (at least not to start with). Originally it was because this is a screencap from one of my favourite shows and I happen to really admire/fancy the actor on the left. I always liked the storyline that got them together so it seemed logical to have them as my avatar. It never crossed my mind that people would be so offended or digusted by me having this avatar.
Now that people have complained, it has turned into a little bit of a statement. As far as I am aware it does not break any Yuku Terms of Use but people seem to suggest it is a little offensive. To me an avatar should represent you and your views and (as long as you aren't breaking any rules) you should not be asked to remove something that is special to yourself. It annoys me that people don't allow you to express yourself the way you wish. I would never ask someone to remove an avatar because it offended me - I would simply ignore it in the posts.
Also, I have seen a lot worse avatars as well! It's not like this is blatent porn - they are not ripping each others clothes off nor does it include nudity! Argh!
WELCOME
IMPORTANT NEWS: As many of you know, I work full time as a mortgage consultant. At the moment, work is rather hectic. That means that I am going
to only posting sporadically over the next few months - possibly until the end of the year (although we do get more time off over Christmas). Please do not
panic if I don't come to your board for a week or more. It is nothing personal - I just simply do not have the time to post. Any major problems, please PM
me as I do tend to check those most days and you can also email me @ loveable_btch@hotmail.com. Thanks.
Mel.
Be Nice And Say Hello!
onewildcat
10/10/08
Arabian Princess24
10/07/08
Arabian Princess24
10/06/08
Carja
10/06/08
Great Week. Take care...
Arabian Princess24
10/03/08
onewildcat
10/01/08
Ann
09/27/08
dinky1212
09/26/08
have a kudo on me
onewildcat
09/25/08
Feel free to stop by Wildcats Playground for Friday night chat, 7:00pm EST.
Carja
09/24/08
Be Nice And Say Hello!